Words have been in short supply with me recently but I have been following the recent discussions on anxiety and FBS with interest, as someone who has experience of both.
My moving plans have hit a wall and it looks as if my buyer may pull out. Acceptance is my goal at the moment ... but the current stress level is pretty high. After a few days lapse earlier in the week I am now back sitting. Thank goodness. I am powerless over so much at the moment, this is one thing I can do for myself. And other things follow from that.
Hugs to Stray and all who need them. Have a good Sunday everyone.
((Mary)). I think accepting that acceptance is acceptable is a vital first step that you've clearly already made ... good luck with the further stages, a really tough task - but you're right, you cannot control the actions of buyers and can only have minor influence over the behaviour of agents and solicitors. I'm not surprised you're stressed!
Thanks everybody for hugs and well wishes. I feel like I've spent a few days in a spin dryer.
I was eventually able to sit with my anger for long enough to recognise just how damaging it is that I can't tolerate it. Realised that my difficult problem is an opportunity to work on an issue that will otherwise keep haunting me for the rest of my days ... and perhaps it will anyway ... but I've decided to take the hard, but hopefully rewarding path and accept that the pain is inevitable. And, as MB said, my feelings will not kill me.
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Words have been in short supply with me recently but I have been following the recent discussions on anxiety and FBS with interest, as someone who has experience of both.
My moving plans have hit a wall and it looks as if my buyer may pull out. Acceptance is my goal at the moment ... but the current stress level is pretty high. After a few days lapse earlier in the week I am now back sitting. Thank goodness. I am powerless over so much at the moment, this is one thing I can do for myself. And other things follow from that.
Hugs to Stray and all who need them. Have a good Sunday everyone.
((Mary)). I think accepting that acceptance is acceptable is a vital first step that you've clearly already made ... good luck with the further stages, a really tough task - but you're right, you cannot control the actions of buyers and can only have minor influence over the behaviour of agents and solicitors. I'm not surprised you're stressed!
Thanks everybody for hugs and well wishes. I feel like I've spent a few days in a spin dryer.
I was eventually able to sit with my anger for long enough to recognise just how damaging it is that I can't tolerate it. Realised that my difficult problem is an opportunity to work on an issue that will otherwise keep haunting me for the rest of my days ... and perhaps it will anyway ... but I've decided to take the hard, but hopefully rewarding path and accept that the pain is inevitable. And, as MB said, my feelings will not kill me.
Hugs to all, xx
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